Before working with me she would never call herself spiritual. I still remember her reactions when I first slightly introduced her to the concepts of energy, and attraction and how we create our experience…
She looked pretty closed to all of this but when I invited her to take the Deep Dive into discovering who she is at a Soul level, she said a Big unexpected YES.
A year after, she told me that she had no clue what my work was about and how it would help her, but she took the leap of doing the “weird” things I proposed to her, just because she had a feeling that the world is already pretty “weird” on so nothing is really weird.
So she kept an open mind, and she proceeded. Just because she kept an open mind, she can now say that a year later she is a totally different person than she used to be. In a way that she had never imagined or expected.
This conversation was a revelation to me. Looking back, I realized I used to have a lot of rules about how the world is and what is possible and what is not, and I can now say that when I started my self-discovery journey I was not really open. I was pretty firm, because I wanted to be safe. I wanted to learn about myself and I wanted to discover how to make my life happier, but I wasn’t open to go about it with trying things that I didn’t understand first.
Usually my first reaction was: “Yeah, whatever”. Not very proud of it, but well, my engineering mind wanted to understand how something works first before believing in it. And a lot of it was too “out there” for me to even grasp.
I can’t even remember the number of times I got “slapped in the face” with evidence that there is a lot more than I can ever imagine throughout my journey. I can say after all those “right in my face” incidents, I have created a trust that there is always a lot more to discover. I’m grateful I received those experiences, otherwise I wouldn’t be where I am and I wouldn’t do what I do indeed.
Now, my norm is too “out there for many people”, but oh well… I can’t help but admit it is TRUE. Although our mind is designed to keep us stable and safe, we are not our mind. We are something WAY MORE than our minds.
And the more you open up yourself to be able to see the vast possibilities, the vast ways one can create their experience, the more you open the door to what you now would say is magic, but tomorrow it’ll be your new norm.
If you want to expand and invite more opportunities into your life, you need to make space for them to fit in.
Although we are unlimited beings, we all run at the same time and space which creates the sense of limitation to one extend or another.
When you want to invite something new to come in, and you don’t have the energetic capacity for it, or you keep holding on to things that consume your energy, it won’t be able to come through.
For example, let’s say you want to create a loving relationship, but you have filled your schedule so much that here is no time for anything else, well, the relationship will be difficult to come through because it doesn’t fit (and honestly if you are in the habit of doing that, you have probably lost relationship with yourself anyway).
Consider this… There is a freeing and expanding energy coming up when you let go of things that do not resonate anymore with you or the person you want to be. It creates space and energy for new things to come in and flow, things that are waiting for the opportunity to show up in your life if you let them. Be it relationships, stuff, ideas, perspectives, habits etc.
So, take some time to think and maybe write down… What things/emotions/relationships etc do not resonate with you anymore?
What can you get rid of, or eliminate so that you create more room for what you want now?
Be honest with yourself, but start with the part of your life that feels easier and then move on to the next and then keep going!
Make some room in your life, and watch it start filling with more of the things you Love and Enjoy!
